I really can't think of anything to say to you. I don't know what to do and it seems like you don't want anyone else's opinions other than yours and you want all of us to agree with yours. I'm sorry. Yes, I want you to fullfill your dreams of going to school and getting those degrees. But in the end, I am the one that's stuck waiting in the wings. And while that is fine with me, it also breaks my heart that you cannot see reason. I am not giving ultimatems, I am simply telling you that for you to go to an expensive school for however long and living together isn't going to cut it. There is just no way. You don't seem to see that. It's your decision, like I said last night, but you need to make it fast. I am not putting any guilt trips on you whatsoever. It's up to you. Your decision, your choice. There is nothing that I can do, nor will I do. I won't stop you from making the choices you do for your life. If you want to go to school, then we need to be put on hold as far as moving out and getting married. It's just not going to work. I'm sorry.
I don't know what else to say or do at this point. So don't bring me in until you make your decision and know what you want. I can't go through this heartache and it will be better for me to support you after you do this.